When I run with my children, my focus isn't on my time, but making sure that they have a fun race. They both have the ability to leave me in the dust. They both still have that tendency to start off fast and then crash and burn. My youngest (G-man) needs a pep talk about mid race so once I catch up with them, I slow my pace and give them some encouragement and tips until he gains the confidence to take off again. G-man actually decided to run with his mom for the second half of the race. He had his second best race that day, running around a 36 min pace. My oldest (L) crashes and burns, gets a stitch in his side, and then walks the rest of the race. We are working to get him to start out slower but his desire to be competitive gets in his way. G-man and I went back out on the course to find L and encourage him. We tried without success to get him to run the last quarter mile. The finish line staff did a great job of encouraging both boys even though L walked his way across the line and probably did not crack a smile to anyone.
I have started sticking around for the awards ceremonies, even though my times are generally not award worthy. G-man loves the snacks available post race. I met another CBRC runner who was also headed to Annapolis to run the 10K Across the Bay the next day. She had great running advice and a very friendly spirit as well. It was great to finally connect with other runners in the area. Mike Blackwell's widow posed with every award winning runner. My boys and I all actually placed in our age groups (and there were actually people who finished after me). Even my oldest, who struggled to finish, beams with pride as he holds his 3rd place age group finishers medal. He also was delighted to find a door prize (gift certificate to McDonald's) in his race packet.
A huge thank you to Mrs. Blackwell, I am sorry that I didn't catch your first name, who came up to us after the race and told me that I was setting a good example for my children. Your time and praise means a lot to me and you really made the race extra special with your kindness. Thank you so much!